Sinister Minds...

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Eng: Lately I have noticed and realised more teenagers suffer from depression. And I hate to see it. We are young and should enjoy our lives. But this post will not be trying to lecture you or give out. I''ll try and help.
Because I used to be depressed too. After my friend and then cousin died. But then it didn't have any reason. I was just upset. But I'm ok now. Bulling. Low self esteem. Family situations. There are many reasons teenagers feel low. Since I made a Tumblr account I see sadness nearly everyday. The affair with ask.fm. And since I will be 100% honest here I will tell you this, I was sick of hearing another teenager committed suicide. Let me explain. Lives were lost for nothing. We are a society! We blame it for everything but in fact we are the ones that rule it. We should understand and support each other, not bring each other down. There are thousands of sick kids that wish and dream of the lives we have but then we waste it, not appreciating that we were lucky enough to be healthy! It maddens me.

Pol: Ostatnio zauwarzylam ze coraz wiecej nastolatkow popada w depresje. I nie chce na to patrzec. Jestesmy mlodzi i powinnismy kochac nasze zycie. Ten post nie powastal zeby was pouczyc ale zeby pomoc. Pomoc bo sama kiedys bylam w takiej sytuacji. Po tym jak moj przyjaciel z dziecinstwa a potem kuzynka umarli. A potem nie mialam powodow zeby byc smutna, ale i tak bylam. Ale teraz jest dobrze. Przesladywanie, Niska samo ocena, problemy w rodzinie. Jest tyle powodow. Od czasu kiedy zalorzylam Tumblr widze to prawie codziennie. Afera z ask.fm. I jesli mam byc szczera na 100% powiem wam to. Mialam dosc wiadomosci ze nastepny nastolatek popelnil samobojstwo. Teraz wytlumacze. Tyle ludzi traci zycie na nic. Jestesmy spoleczenstwem! Caly czas mowimy ze wszystko jest wina spoleczenstwa, ale tak naprawde to MY nim rzadzimy! Powinnismy sie wspierac a nie dokuczac i przesladywac. Sa tysiace chorych dzieci, ludzi ktorzy tylko marza o takim zyciu jak nasze, ale my je marnujemy nie zdajac sobie sprawy jakimi szczesciarzami jestesmy ze jestesmy przynajmniej zdrowi! Strasznie mnie to wkurza. 


 

Bulling
Przesladywanie

Like any other teen of course I have been bullied. I never really understood why was I picked on. Was it the way I looked? The way I acted? A person I believed to be my friend bullied me. Bulling isn't only hitting people, humiliating them. You think it's 'only messing' while the person cries and cries over it. Even now I am picked on. It started last week when a girl from my class thought it is 'hilarious' how I have an American accent. She asks me questions so I answer her and she laughs at the way I speak ( while I'm still in the same place). I don't know why she is doing this because I thought she was ok at the start. Plus! She was bullied herself (I think) so if she know how that feels, why is she doing this? And the worst thing is that my friend chose her over me on Friday. That actually upset me.

Jak jaki kolwiek inny nastolatek oczywiste jest to ze bylam przesladywana. Nigdy tak naprawde nie wiedzialam dlaczego mi dokuczaja. Dlatego jak wygladalam? Jak sie zachowywalam? Myslalam ze ta osoba jest moja kolerzanka, ale wyszlo inaczej. Przesladywanie nie jest tylko biciem, albo upokarzaniem.
Sa to nawet takie male rzeczy. Oni mysla ze to byl 'tylko zart' ale ty itak placzesz przez to pare dni. Nawet teraz jedna osoba nie daje mi spokoju. Pewna dziewczyna odemnie z klasy sadzi ze to 'przezabawne' ze mam Amerykanski akcent. Zadaje mi pytania tylko po to zeby uslyszec jak mowie i smiac mi sie przez to w twarz. Nie wiem dlaczego to robi, sadzilam ze jest nawet spoko. I sama byla przesladywana, wiec dlaczego to robi jak sama wie jak to jest? A najgorsze jest to ze moj 'przyjaciel' wybral ja a nie mnie. Trudno wytlumaczyc ale tak naprawde nie bylo mi milo.                    


 Eng: I heard that bullies try to make themselves feel better by bulling you. I don't feel it's fair. Sometimes they dont even know how much damage they can do to you. For instance, I remember EVERY word they said to me. But enough about me. How can we stop this? I used to think telling someone is out of the picture, but it does help. I know it's hard. But it's nescessary. Even telling your sister, brother. Parents.
'Problem shared is problem halved' I used to fight fire with fire, but trust me it works short term. Im not telling you, you should. But its your choice, I cant control you through the screen. But if I could tell you what to do, I'd tell you not to fight, please tell.
Pol: Slyszalam ze tacy przesladowcy chca poprawic sobie humor i dlaego ci dokuczaja. Ale to nie jest fair. Czasem nie wiedza ile krzywdy moga wyrzadzic. Np. Ja, pamietam kazde slowo. 
Kiedys myslalam ze nigdy nikomu nie powiem. Ale tak naprawde to potrzebne. Powiedziec swojeje siostrze, bratu, rodzicom. Czasem probowalam zwalczyc ogien ogniem ale nie gwarantowalo mi to spokoju na dlugo. Nie mowie wam ze macie sie bic ale przeciez nie moge was kontrolowac przez ekran. Ale jesli moglabym wam doradzic to powiedzialabym nie walczcie, prosze powiedzcie komus. 



                                                             Fight for your happiness

                                                                      Loneliness
                                                                     Samotnosc.


 Eng: Sometimes being alone is what you need. But after some time you are sick of it. I love being alone. This may sound weird, but when you are alone you have your own protective shell and no one can hurt you there. Sounds familiar? Through my life I have been disappointed by so many people. And I'm a very forgiving person. I dont know why.
<--- I asked those questions so many times.. I suppose I can say I'm afraid of
getting hurt. But now that I think about it, we should try. If you end up hurt
you'll have learned a lesson I'd say you'll remember forever. We need to open up to people. You will never recover from feeling lonely until you do something about it. A best friend, a sibling, a parent or maybe you'd be lucky enough to find a boyfriend. there is so much possibilities! You just have to try.  

Pol: Czasami bycie samym to jest to czego potrzebujesz. Ale po jakims czasie masz juz dosyc. Ja kocham byc sama. Moze zabrzmi to dziwnie ale kiedy jestes sam tworzysz taka mala ochronna 'skorupke' i nikt w niej nie moze cie skrzywdzic. Mnostwo ludzi mnie rozczarowywalo. A ja wybaczam strasznie szybko. Nie wiem dlaczego. Ale tak teraz mysle, powinnismy probowac poznawac nowych ludzi. Nawet jesli skonczy sie to byciem zranionym. To bedzie lekcja ktora napewno zapamietasz do konca zycia. Nigdy nie przestaniesz czuc sie samotny jesli nie wydziesz do ludzi.
Rodzenstwo, przyjaciel, rodzice. A moze bedziesz miala na tyle szczescia ze znajdziesz chlopaka. Jest tyle mozliwosci! Musisz poprostu probowac.    
Ps. Isn't Klaus just amazing?
Ps. Czy Klaus nie jest swietny?                                                                                                                                        



   

                                                                         Self Harm.
                                                                   Samookaleczanie.



 Eng: I dont know what to say about this. I have never purpously hurt myself so I don't know what to do or say. All I know it is bad. You are beautiful! You don't want those ugly scars on you forever! It hurts and it can even kill you. I unfortunately know a person that did it to get attention, and no, it is not my opinion 'Oh s/she did it to get attention.' I had proof. I mean if you really cut yourself you dont pull up your sleeves and show your scars to everyone you see and laugh about it right? I believe it is not the answer. It only takes your mind off something for a while. Try and do something different. I don't know, draw, read a good book that will take you to a totally different world. I don't know. Something different anyway. I really care about every one of you that are reading this. Oh! Try and write poems, or songs or short stories. Trust me it helps.
Pol: Nie wiem co powiedziec na ten temat. Nigdy sie nie okaleczalam. Jedyne co wiem to jest ze to jest zle. Jestescie piekni! Nie chcecie tych strasznych ran na swoim ciele do koncz zycia. To boli i moze cie nawet zabic. Niestety znam taka osobe ktora robila to jedynie zeby zwrocic na siebie uwage. Nie podnosi sie chyba rekawow i nie pokazuje sie ran wszystkim naokolo i jeszcze sie z tego cieszy. To nie jest odpowiedz. Odwraca twoja uwage na pare minut. Sprobuj czegos innego. Rysuj, czytaj dobra wciagajaca ksiazke. 
Cokowiek. Naprawde mi zalerzy na kazdym z was. Oh! Albo piszcie wiersze, piosenki albo krotkie historyjki. 







                             Yes it does! You just have to make it happen. If not you no one will...


                                                       Where's my Happy Ending?
                                                      Gdzie moj Szczesliwy Koniec?


 Eng: You are the only author of your book of life. If that makes any sence. You are the only one that can write the Happy Ending.  Your Happy Ending...
Don't care about the past or even the present. Think about the future! Think about your career, your love life... Everything, it is way more exciting than the present. I am more excited about the future :P
You can be anything you want, ANYTHING! Astronaut, baker, FAIRY. No.. Nevermind the fairy..



Pol: Tylko ty jestes autorka swojej ksiazki zycia. Jesli to ma jakis sens. Jestes jedyna osoba ktora napisze Szczesliwe Zakonczenie. Twoje Szczesliwe Zakonczenie... Niech nie obchodzi cie przeszlosc albo co jest teraz. Mysl o przyszlosci! Mysl o twojej karieze, twojej milosci. Wszystko jest bardziej interesujace od tego co jest teraz. 
Np. Ja po czesci nie moge sie odczekac kiedy bede dorosla. Mozesz byc kim chcesz! Astronauta, piekarzem, WROZKA.. No dobra z wrozka to moze przesadzilam.....






                                                           What to look forward to?
                                                                  Na co czekac? 

Love!!
Flowers!!
Hugs!!
Smiles!!
Family!!
Books!!


 
  
All good things in life! 
All beautiful things!! 
Everything!!

Ps. If you want to talk, just email me. its.all.about.fashion.2@gmail.com
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